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Post by Joy on Mar 5, 2009 6:34:06 GMT -5
I'm clingy!!! atch made in heaven. Actually it one of those He's aloud to be clingy but if the girl is he runs!!
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Post by Dianne on Mar 5, 2009 6:49:07 GMT -5
I'm clingy!!! atch made in heaven. Actually it one of those He's aloud to be clingy but if the girl is he runs!! You can't be too hard on him Joy. We are all inclined to be a certain way. I myself tend to want to mother. It took tons of therapy and soul searching to find an emotionally healthy man who I didn't need to mother. If I was let loose on the dating market again it would be a constant struggle not to fall again into a relationship with a man who was a three year old in a 50 year old body. In other words I attract fuck-ups like shit attracts flies. I also know myself well enough that I would be the type of gal he would be attracted too for all of five minutes before he ran for his life in the opposite direction. I would be one of the gals whose heart he broke and he would be left feeling terrible... "She was a really nice gal... why did I do that..."
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Post by Mary on Mar 5, 2009 10:03:33 GMT -5
Guys, I'll share this, too...especially after reading Elizabeth's account. There was a model who spilled the beans about her and G's friendship. I would have taken it with a grain of salt, had it not been alarm bells going off all over the place in my head.... My gut tells me her account was true. For one thing....her english was broken....also there WAS a photo shoot for a product a couple of years ago that he was a part of.... She said one thing about him...among other things....that told me something about his inner heart in SPADES. Others may have overlooked this....but I quote.... "He was very sweet and clingy." I swear my heart exploded when I read that.... What else did she say? Yea! Yea! What else did she say?
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Post by pilar on Mar 5, 2009 10:49:30 GMT -5
Alright, alright! Calm down! Sheesh!
LOL!!!!
Bear in mind, this is hearsay and can't be verified. She wrote this on some message board....I THINK Just Jared....close to a year ago.
She was one of two models in a photoshoot with G for Jaguar. He flirted outrageously with the both of them....she was the one who responded....hence began a one year ...err.....affair....I guess you would call it. That is....whenever they were able to hook up...I beleive it was NY most of the time.
It was the height of the 300 craze.....she wrote he was NOT AT ALL like Leonidas (why the hell would she expect that?)....as a lover, he was decent.....she's had better, she's had worse. She also made a point to shout out to his fans not to expect him to be like any of his roles because they may be disappointed.
Apparently she met the love of her life a short while later, married him....and now they're living in France.
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Post by ava on Mar 5, 2009 10:59:21 GMT -5
Do ya really belive thats true? I mean first I can say too that its true...even if its not know whaT I mean?
And second why is she saying things about him if she´s a friend or was....I allways ask myself why are they talking about even good things that dosent matter, if they call themselfs friends? In the showbizz u need real good friends and those are hard to find.
I dont understand those gals just to get a little rumour I wouldnt talk about my famous friend...
Just my thought...
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Post by Mary on Mar 5, 2009 11:08:21 GMT -5
hmmmm......interesting. I wouldnt expect Ger to be like any of his charactors. That would be kinda weird don't ya think? Either way, I would take him as he is. From what Ive seen, he seems to be very sweet. If he were truly an asshole in real life, then that would mean he is constantly putting on an act of trying to come across as BEING a nice person....too much work that goes into that and besides, I believe people like that are called narcisisstists??? I completely spelled that wrong!!
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Post by pilar on Mar 5, 2009 13:03:08 GMT -5
Nowhere did I see anything negative that was recalled by her....maybe a little too much honesty, perhaps? Yeah....she should have kept her mouth shut...but how many hits do ya suppose that website had to read all the dirty details?
Look....I love the guy....however, I don't hide behind a veil of self righteousness and lecture others about invading his privacy. I am NOT talking about anyone on this board....ninety nine percent of you are GROOVY.
That kissing vid? HELL YES....I WATCHED IT! Once. That was enough. The ones that lectured others about watching it probably favorited it and watched it THOUSANDS OF TIMES.
As I said, I got tired of the hypocrisy.
If there is gossip or rumors or new pics of G....I will read them!
Anyways, I can only speak for myself when I say my gut instinct tells me her account is true.
XO
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Post by ava on Mar 5, 2009 13:36:05 GMT -5
Nowhere did I see anything negative that was recalled by her....maybe a little too much honesty, perhaps? Yeah....she should have kept her mouth shut...but how many hits do ya suppose that website had to read all the dirty details? Look....I love the guy....however, I don't hide behind a veil of self righteousness and lecture others about invading his privacy. I am NOT talking about anyone on this board....ninety nine percent of you are GROOVY. That kissing vid? HELL YES....I WATCHED IT! Once. That was enough. The ones that lectured others about watching it probably favorited it and watched it THOUSANDS OF TIMES. As I said, I got tired of the hypocrisy. If there is gossip or rumors or new pics of G....I will read them! Anyways, I can only speak for myself when I say my gut instinct tells me her account is true. XO I didna mean u pilar neither was it an critic on u or something. It was just my general thought about that kind of gossip , u know? For me I dont belive those things. I belive it if Ger is saying it or his fam or his agent or assistants ... and then not until I see it on vid, live or so, ´cause writing or blogging can I do too. does that making any sense?
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Post by elisabeth75 on Mar 5, 2009 15:13:57 GMT -5
Ava, I always take gossip and blogs with a grain of salt but I have to agree with Pilar on that comment. I read it too a while ago, it was on Just Jared and it sounded real, to me too, for once. Obviously none of us will ever know if this person ever said the truth but I believe it is, call it gut feelings. There is more than meets the eyes in the G man, imo, he is a funny, VERY intelligent, sensible and passionate person who can act cocky but inside, I believe, he is a very insecure person, who needs constant reassurance and who doesn't consider himself 'good enough' to share a life/project with a woman. But I repeat, this is my personal opinion, then who knows how the real G is and why he is still single...
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Post by ava on Mar 5, 2009 15:26:04 GMT -5
Beth, I have no prob with that Its just not easy to express myself in english u know? Thats why I ask sometimes if its making any sense ´cause I wanna know if u all understand it like I meant it not that any one is getting it wrong or worse and feel attacked...
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Post by elisabeth75 on Mar 5, 2009 15:38:06 GMT -5
Sweetie, don't worry, I understood you 100% big hug
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Post by ava on Mar 5, 2009 15:54:28 GMT -5
Sweetie, don't worry, I understood you 100% big hug thats good
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Post by Dianne on Mar 5, 2009 16:06:13 GMT -5
Nowhere did I see anything negative that was recalled by her....maybe a little too much honesty, perhaps? Yeah....she should have kept her mouth shut...but how many hits do ya suppose that website had to read all the dirty details? Look....I love the guy....however, I don't hide behind a veil of self righteousness and lecture others about invading his privacy. I am NOT talking about anyone on this board....ninety nine percent of you are GROOVY. That kissing vid? HELL YES....I WATCHED IT! Once. That was enough. The ones that lectured others about watching it probably favorited it and watched it THOUSANDS OF TIMES. As I said, I got tired of the hypocrisy. If there is gossip or rumors or new pics of G....I will read them! Anyways, I can only speak for myself when I say my gut instinct tells me her account is true. XO I believe it. I think this girl wanted her little moment in the spot light and she got it. She she have told.... no... but if it's out there I will listen. About him being a mediocre lover.... I would say that every opinion is subjective... what would be so so for some would be extraordinary for others. I wouldn't put much stock in her opinion there only because of that reason. I agree with you totally pilar!
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Post by pilar on Mar 5, 2009 16:38:16 GMT -5
Thanks, doll.
Oh...and Ava.....my comments were not directed at you at ALL. I was speaking mostly of my experiences at my previous haven. YOU'RE GROOVY, MAN! LOL!!
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Post by ava on Mar 5, 2009 16:40:39 GMT -5
Thanks, doll. Oh...and Ava.....my comments were not directed at you at ALL. I was speaking mostly of my experiences at my previous haven. YOU'RE GROOVY, MAN! LOL!! I know I know pilar! U too ! lol Mine were too a general thought not direct to anyone here on board I luv it here
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