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Post by ava on Jan 23, 2009 16:07:27 GMT -5
I ask myself for a while now why this guy is single.... IF he even is single Is it just the busy schedule ?
Maybe he is freedome - loving ?
Or is he too "flashy" ?
Or is he is incapable of keeping a relationship because..... ?
He have fear of commitment because .... What are u thinking?
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Post by Joy on Jan 23, 2009 16:20:04 GMT -5
I ask myself for a while now why this guy is single.... IF he even is single Is it just the busy schedule ?
Maybe he is freedome - loving ?
Or is he too "flashy" ?
Or is he is incapable of keeping a relationship because..... ?
He have fear of commitment because .... What are u thinking? Fear of Comittment is my best guess. I also get the impression that he feels he is unworthy of a real relationship so he quenches his physical need with shallow short term relationships.
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Post by ava on Jan 23, 2009 16:33:07 GMT -5
I belive that Gerry is incredibly many - sided and much women dont know how to deal with that ...
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Post by torisweettooth on Jan 23, 2009 17:00:57 GMT -5
Well he doesn't have a good track to watch from Parents. I mean his parents divorced. Did his mama ever get remarried?
Plus since he is totally a mama's boy, that factors too. Want a girl like mama.
Hasn't felt that spark yet. (HELLLLLOOOOO!? I'm in Texas, that's why! Geez)
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Post by ava on Jan 23, 2009 17:20:34 GMT -5
His mom is remarried and they´re still together.
I think they´re together since Ger and the other two were kids, he´s got a good relationship with his stepfather Alex
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Post by ava on Jan 23, 2009 17:21:43 GMT -5
I knewed that u´ll write before me Aysun!!! I KNEWED IT ! Why I even started
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Post by torisweettooth on Jan 23, 2009 17:42:33 GMT -5
LOL...Ohhh yeah. Now I remember. Well then there goes that theory. But the others are kinda sound.
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Post by Leppardlady on Jan 24, 2009 0:22:05 GMT -5
I truly believe he has been deeply in love before and got burned... that, to me, would make me gun shy.
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Post by ava on Jan 24, 2009 5:32:04 GMT -5
Awe thats sad but another option...
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Post by Dianne on Jan 24, 2009 9:53:10 GMT -5
All reasons are valid but after seeing his schedual lately I don't think he has the energy or time to devote to one woman and a relationship.
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Post by ava on Jan 24, 2009 10:39:55 GMT -5
All reasons are valid but after seeing his schedual lately I don't think he has the energy or time to devote to one woman and a relationship. thats true too but if there where someone who he really luv I belive they would make it thru the schedule
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Post by dawne27 on Jan 24, 2009 22:52:27 GMT -5
oh my God....i've often of late meditated on this VERY subject. here's my spin....(1) i do not believe gerard butler is SINGLE! but, because he's a handsome movie-star...you know, the image thang. how can someone as intensely,passionately in awe of life such as he is...be left uncommitted to loving and being loved? (2)then again, he COULD be single even nearing 40 because there's too many choices, they're all good, he loves women and loves being loved by women. but, you know what they say about love and lust...(only in the surge of passion do they mingle in confusion). if this be true for this man...eventually it'll catch up. he yearns for that one special gal to fit right....who knows?
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Post by torisweettooth on Jan 25, 2009 20:04:39 GMT -5
Oooo. I love how deep you are dawn and I totally agree. Unfortunatly with both too. For PA issues and worring that the PAPPS will screw things up, I would keep a relationship hush hush until I knew it would last. Bummer...
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Post by irishseductress on Jan 26, 2009 0:58:54 GMT -5
If he were in a real solid relationship wouldn't he want to take her with him when he traveled just to have someone close by and who he could talk to all the time? Besides Allen lol If he were in a real solid relationship there would be signs all around him that point out that he is in one. Mama Butler would be doing the wedding invites if he were in a relationship lol He may have commitement issues like myself. He may be afraid of getting hurt again. He may have trust issues. He probably doesn't want to end up like his real dad ie... leaving someone. He may have abadonement issues. There could be million and one reasons why.
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Post by princetongal on Jan 26, 2009 5:30:32 GMT -5
He absolutely has abadonement issues. He has talked about when his real Dad came to Scotland to see him and how he cried and cried and cried. Also, I think Gerry became an alcoholic due to the times he spent with his Dad from 16-22. Gerry would go to Canada for his summers to live with his father and he has talked about our out there his Dad was and his wild times in Canada. Gerry has never come out and said his Dad was an alcoholic, but the signs point to that. I think he just wanted to so badly be loved and be accepted by his Dad he did what his Dad did and that was drink and have alot of mindless sex with hookers. There was an interview way back in which he said his Dad would 'set him up' with hookers. Imagine how destroyed his Mother was when Gerry would leave his home to go to Canada to be with his Dad.
All of his past leads up to his present and the abandonement of his Dad still has a profound impact and brings deep sadness to him. I am sure he would love to be a Dad himself but is scared that he might just be that guy who leaves them. He's so complex our Gerry!
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