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Post by Dianne on Jan 26, 2009 7:19:15 GMT -5
I do think he has commitment issues but I also think it has a lot to do with time. Seeing him jet around the country these past first few weeks of 2009 I don't see how he could have a relationship. I think Gerry is looking to be seen and the more places he's seen the better. He is not a household name yet. He needs a couple more roles like 300 then we'll see if he'll get himself a girlfriend. He's a man after all and he doesn't have a biological clock to consider.
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Post by Joy on Jan 26, 2009 8:02:53 GMT -5
Anything that happens to you as a young child can or will stay with you for the rest of your live. Everything that I have heard about Gerry is that he is a person that truly desires a deep and abiding relationship but sees himself as unworthy. Probably the worst thing for him was meeting his father and getting to know him. He likely saw too much of himself in his father. If he had never met him he could have assumed that he was nothing like his father therefore he would not do as his father did. Gerry's Dad died of cancer very young. If Gerry was 22 I would guess that his Dad was not even 50 yet. I would also guess that he died of liver cancer from long term alcohol abuse. I get the impression that his mother married when Gerry was older. Obviously before he was 16 but Gerry had plenty of time to ponder the fact that his father was gone.
Gerry is a recovering Alcoholic. He is the first one to admit that. An alcoholic is some one that drinks to excess despite what he knows is happening when he is drunk. He realizes when he drinks he cannot have just one or two but will not stop until he is stinking drunk. He drinks nothing now because he knows that if he ever has just one the flood gates will open and he will lose control. He makes no apologies for it.
As far as him being a good father someday...Good is a relative term. What one person thinks is good another would consider a complete and utter failure. What I am wondering is if during his dead drunk stage 16 to 22 why there hasn't been 1 or more love children surfacing since his success with 300. You can't tell me that if someone is so drunk that he doesn't remember what he did that night but he is going to remember to use precautions. If he failed to take precautions you can't tell me that every woman he happened to be with was on the pill. There is the possibility that the sweet funny Gerry that we all love may be a mean drunk and that kept the women away. That might be the reason he cryptically states that he has a dark side that you don't know.
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Post by ava on Jan 26, 2009 10:30:22 GMT -5
We all have our dark sides and WE dont have the right to arrenge over these from others. Thats just my thought about this.
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Post by torisweettooth on Jan 26, 2009 14:59:26 GMT -5
I agree Ava. This is asking on our opinions. I think the father and time issue are valid points. And he did talk about his father in a lot of interviews back in the day. Now he is more discreet but like Joy said. Issue as a child and never facing them, can hunt you to your adulthood. That's just plain fact. Now when it comes to bashing, thats wrong. So Aysun I agree there with you. But saying facts is not bashing to me. Now calling them low life and heartless without knowing them is. Again that is my opinion. To each his....i mean her , own. That's one of the things I love about this site. We can all disagree but still respect eachothers views enough not to get nasty about it. Ahem, I mean helllooooo you don't see me placing poo-paper bags at your "doors". (bows head in shame) Ava an unexpected error on my part. Once again...so sorry. Heat of the moment and all. Its the gerratric in me.
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Post by ava on Jan 26, 2009 15:54:27 GMT -5
Ahem, I mean helllooooo you don't see me placing poo-paper bags at your "doors". (bows head in shame) Ava an unexpected error on my part. Once again...so sorry. Heat of the moment and all. Its the gerratric in me. ......did u look meanwhile outside ?
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Post by torisweettooth on Jan 26, 2009 19:11:56 GMT -5
Ahem, I mean helllooooo you don't see me placing poo-paper bags at your "doors". (bows head in shame) Ava an unexpected error on my part. Once again...so sorry. Heat of the moment and all. Its the gerratric in me. ......did u look meanwhile outside ? HA! The balloons and flowers surrounding the paperbag so didn't get me. Gotta try harder then that. Why cause i'm a SUPERSTAAAAARRRR!
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Post by ava on Jan 27, 2009 2:26:11 GMT -5
HA! The balloons and flowers surrounding the paperbag so didn't get me. Gotta try harder then that. Why cause i'm a SUPERSTAAAAARRRR! U...u dont tookie my present?
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Post by irishseductress on Jan 27, 2009 22:08:26 GMT -5
HA! The balloons and flowers surrounding the paperbag so didn't get me. Gotta try harder then that. Why cause i'm a SUPERSTAAAAARRRR! U...u dont tookie my present?
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Post by Dianne on Jan 28, 2009 5:46:37 GMT -5
He's single because fate has him waiting to meet and marry one of the lovely ladies that posts here!!!
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Post by irishseductress on Jan 29, 2009 23:52:00 GMT -5
He's waiting for me!!! lol He just doesn't know it yet, just waiting for the right time to club him over the head and take him back to the cave of love lol
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Post by ava on Jan 31, 2009 3:33:42 GMT -5
He's waiting for me!!! lol He just doesn't know it yet, just waiting for the right time to club him over the head and take him back to the cave of love lol UGAHHHH!!!
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Post by torisweettooth on Jan 31, 2009 12:05:27 GMT -5
See and that's why he runs to me cause I won't club him. He comes freely to me. And he will sing "You are my Sunshine" and all that jazz.
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Post by irishseductress on Jan 31, 2009 22:28:32 GMT -5
Once he got with a red head he jumped back in my bed lol
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Post by ava on Feb 1, 2009 8:42:06 GMT -5
folks...u make me laugh and I need that in the moment. so much for that
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Post by Dianne on Feb 1, 2009 14:08:40 GMT -5
I was thinking.... You girls are beautiful young ladies... Gerry commented that no one says anything sexy to him and what was to stop you from meeting him and asking him out..... I would if I were young and single... The worst that could happen is he lets you down easy. He may say yes.
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