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Post by leosgurl on Mar 13, 2010 20:11:59 GMT -5
Ok, I'm 5ft, 145 lbs, need to lose at least 25 lbs. But I'm not chubby per say rolls anywhere, I have a curvy body with big boobs and an ass. But I still can't find a man. I have a fun personality, love to do new things, I try to dress nice everywhere I go, but I have never been on a date. So tell me whats wrong, because I don't know what it is. Is it true, that men only look at the outside??
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Post by Leppardlady on Mar 13, 2010 20:42:46 GMT -5
Each man has different things he looks for in a woman, some like tall, slender women, some like short and curvy, etc. I am sure there are men out there who will date a woman for who she is and not for what she looks like... I haven't met one yet, though. PattheGerrykat: This is our favorite icon. Is that white stuff on it's head what I think it is?
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Post by dawne27 on Mar 13, 2010 22:14:17 GMT -5
oh, LOL i've just GOTTA add here. YO YO patthegerrykat....YES...spring forward. 1 hour ahead TONIGHT and leosgurl and lepp, i hear what you're saying. what EXACTLY is this 'thing' about attraction, and love, and sex, and men, and what works and what doesn't work, and why? leo...you sound simply charming (ie - 5', curvy, well dressed) and patty & dianne whoosh! (ie. 5'9 = goRgEous & lanky) its really the chemistry between two people involved. and that chemistry changes....like the wind. what floats one guys boat on one day and doesn't with the other on another day? people are changeable, attraction is changeable. what happens over time? now...HERE we have substance. it all could simply boil down to lymbic pupilary action and olfactory innervation. HA! its difficult to line gerry up with the rest of manhood b/c he's way at the other end of the spectrum. really. however, nothing in this world is without its set of difficulties, right? here, perhaps gerry has TOO much distraction and choices? can get a little unsettling, maybe confusing. its like being in one of those nyc italian bakeries...it ALL looks so good the variety. eat too much? 'sploof' personally, i am a 'lady in waiting'. for what? my fellow peers to catch up with me. (tap, tap, tap) soon, very soon. or else. i'll just have to take my business elsewhere. did anybody just here the call of the wild? was that a 'cougar' sound i heard? hmmmmm
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Post by Joy on Mar 13, 2010 22:49:17 GMT -5
I agree that attraction and must have something to do with the physical but that is Eros love is the erotic deisire and that is what fades over time. Its like trying to live on adreniline. It wears off and then there stuck with what is left. At that point is when both partners have to choose to love each other and chose to love each other more every day. It can happen and it does happen every day love is not static. If it is static it will shrivel and die. When life becomes mundane and you have picked up the umpteenth pair of underware on the the floor of the bedroom or shoes in the livingroom you sigh and smile because dispite the faults that you were totally unable to see in the throws of the erotic love you choose to love him still. the catch is he has to be just as committed to you, cause no matter who you are he can find fault with you as well.
I feel sorry for Gerry in that point. He has all these Erotic relationships though the number is debateable. It is not the quantity but the quality. Poor Gerry hasn't figured out that. Anthough it may be high adreniline I'm sure it is an empty at the end of the day. Maybe some day.
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Post by canadia on Mar 14, 2010 13:11:35 GMT -5
Continuing the pattern that anytime Gerry merely talks to a woman in public it gets blown out of proportion: From the Daily Mail Has Jen's man got designs for Trinny? Jennifer Aniston may have some surprise competition for the affections of Gerard Butler - Trinny Woodall. Jen, 41, has been linked with actor Butler since their on-screen romance in The Bounty Hunter, but I spotted the charming Scotsman deep in conversation with Trinny at last week's premiere of the Lloyd Webber musical Love Never Dies. 'They swapped numbers and discussed a trip to Glasgow,' I'm told. 'The conversation got rather deep and Trinny was hanging on his every word.' Butler, 40, made a beeline for Trinny in 2008 after she separated from husband Johnny Elichaoff. At the time, Trinny, 45, said: 'It's too soon!' Read more: www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1257728/David-Schwimmer-From-Friend-lover-Zoes-set-wife.html#ixzz0iBgVDxAaI imagine at most they are friends from the London scene.
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Post by Dianne on Mar 14, 2010 16:14:19 GMT -5
Continuing the pattern that anytime Gerry merely talks to a woman in public it gets blown out of proportion: From the Daily Mail Has Jen's man got designs for Trinny? Jennifer Aniston may have some surprise competition for the affections of Gerard Butler - Trinny Woodall. Jen, 41, has been linked with actor Butler since their on-screen romance in The Bounty Hunter, but I spotted the charming Scotsman deep in conversation with Trinny at last week's premiere of the Lloyd Webber musical Love Never Dies. 'They swapped numbers and discussed a trip to Glasgow,' I'm told. 'The conversation got rather deep and Trinny was hanging on his every word.' Butler, 40, made a beeline for Trinny in 2008 after she separated from husband Johnny Elichaoff. At the time, Trinny, 45, said: 'It's too soon!' Read more: www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1257728/David-Schwimmer-From-Friend-lover-Zoes-set-wife.html#ixzz0iBgVDxAaI imagine at most they are friends from the London scene. Poor Gerry, he can't look in the direction of a woman unless he's having a serious love affair... Give the guy a break. I must say though it still tickles me that of all the women G has been linked too when it came to a rumor that him and Lindsey Lohan were an item his people went into major damage control.
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Post by Clairemarie! on Mar 14, 2010 18:24:56 GMT -5
Please I don't even think Lindsey Lohan wants to be linked to Lindsey Lohan.
I know from my stand point people ALWAYS come to me for relationship advice. I have never once been in a real relationship, and I (being 18) am still a virgin. But I think the only reason why that is, is quite simply I'm extreamly choosey. Not consciencly though. I just don't ever put myself in situations where I would be activly dating or whatever. Plus it doesn't help that my self esteem is through the floor.
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Post by princetongal on Mar 14, 2010 19:20:21 GMT -5
He did go out on a date with Trinny in the past year or so, so that part is true. Not sure about the beeline comment, LOL! She commented on it and said he was sweet and fun, but it never materialized into any thing. She is a recent divorcee and said it was too soon for anything serious. She also sat with him at the hotel opening he went to with his buddy Nick. Not Dubai, but somewhere in that general region...can't recall. But she was there and sat near him at dinner. I think it was at the same party that Lindsey was at actually. Guy Richie was there as well and I remember some of us wondering if Paprika would show.
BTW, where is our darling Paprika these days!?!!?
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Post by canadia on Mar 14, 2010 20:22:27 GMT -5
Very interesting Princeton I did not know that - I did think the beeline comment had to mean there was more smoke [Gerry's fav phrase these days is where there is smoke there is fire, what do you mean boyfriend?] but I was too lazy today to research it further. Even if just a dalliance, I would have to say I'd be impressed a) because I like Trinny, been a fan of the British What Not to Wear since it came out and some of the off shoot shows she and Susannah have done, making over couples and coming to the US to makeover America, she is smart and funny and b) one of the rare examples of Gerry going for an older woman, hee hee.
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Post by sophiero on Mar 14, 2010 21:30:08 GMT -5
Well the gossip press only have a vested interest in pointing out what they are interested in. There may be a lot more older women in Gerry’s resume then we think. Poet Kola Boof for example. (If true) Like it or not I think Naomi Campbell is one of them, Gerry’s “#1”on the list of seven rumored dates Men’s Journal gave him. She was seen at his condo in LA a couple of years ago before he bought his current place. He has always crushed on Halle Berry. (Unavailable of course but if he met a 45 year old of her caliber…) And if he is as paranoid as he says he is he will have to think out of the box so speak when it comes to sexual companionship. You know Jack Nicholson, & Warren Beatty had it easy compared to Gerry, they didn’t have to deal with the 24/7 internet news cycle & social media that tracks celebrities activities today. They had a hell of a lot more privacy then Gerry has right now.
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Post by canadia on Mar 16, 2010 12:54:06 GMT -5
Okay word is that Gerry was not in a good mood this morning, on his way to Regis and Kelly and peeps are speculating this article is the reason why: Meet NYC's MVP At 40, ‘Bounty Hunter’ star Gerard Butler is the city’s biggest lothario. Just call him the booty hunter Read more: www.nypost.com/p/entertainment/movies/butler_from_page_v7POc35D4VaFm8W6ywXyYJ/2#ixzz0iNJTohA5Read it for yourselves. Practically publishing his NYC address would make me a bit annoyed. I had a fear that things Gerry has said over the last week whilst amusing might actually be seen as a challenge by the gossip press to dig deeper into his private life.
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Post by leosgurl on Mar 16, 2010 13:52:45 GMT -5
Yeah, I can imagine how pissed he was this morning, especially the cute pout when he's mad. He looks cute pissed, but in pictures of course. You don't want to be the one up in his face when he's pissed. Unless you can calm him down!!!!
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Post by Tuesday on Mar 26, 2010 21:47:24 GMT -5
I think he'll end up with an older woman...idk why?
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Post by Leppardlady on Mar 27, 2010 18:21:18 GMT -5
Or maybe he will choose someone closer to his own age. (hint, hint, Gerry *wink* *wink*).
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Post by lolab2711 on Mar 27, 2010 19:19:33 GMT -5
I'm curious, Canadia - where in the NY Post article linked above did they refer to where Gerry's place is in the city? I read it and didn't see anything.
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