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Post by torisweettooth on Sept 15, 2008 15:00:55 GMT -5
www.monstersandcritics.com/people/news/article_1430660.phpSep 14, 2008, 8:00 GMT>> Gerard Butler hates being single. The 'RocknRolla' actor - who has been romantically linked to a string of beautiful actresses including Cameron Diaz and Rosario Dawson - is growing tired of his bachelor lifestyle and yearns to find the right girl to set up home with. He said: "I enjoy being single less and less, but I'm not going to settle down just because of that. I'm in a bit of an in-between stage. I find playing the field less and less exciting, but I'm still not 100 per cent sure if I want to settle down." Gerard, 38, finds it amusing that he is reported to be dating any female star who he is seen with. Speaking about he alleged romance with Cameron, he said: "She's a friend of mine and she is a really special girl. She's amazing. But there's nothing going on. We just happened to be out with a group of people having dinner. Then another night we ran into each other completely by accident. "Suddenly, people are saying we are together. I'm amazed at how these things spread." Cameron is currently dating British model Paul Sculfor, whose ex-girlfriend is former 'Friends' actress Jennifer Aniston. ___________________________________________________ Hmmm funny how they are now being rumored as well. PR, darn it to pluto!! ;D So if he's in Japan for PR on PSILY on the 11th...when was this get together with Jenn?
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Post by Dianne on Sept 15, 2008 15:11:28 GMT -5
Tori, thats it you're just going to have to throw yourself in his path somehow.... Which "How to get Gerry to notice you" would work best? He'll meet you fall in love and that will be it. Leppard's another single girl...you two need to get cracking and strike when the iron is hot!
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Post by torisweettooth on Sept 15, 2008 16:10:25 GMT -5
LMAO...you silly. I don't got the time right now. I will let LL have her fun with him now and then he will be ready to settle down. hehehehehe! I would loooove to go back to NY and really look around. My brother told me to do modeling with him and I could. Like farts I would. I ain't straving myself for no one. I hate when they say. "Oh you look good. But you would look even better if you lost..." Oh go suck on a straw...lol
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Post by Dianne on Sept 16, 2008 4:49:46 GMT -5
LMAO...you silly. I don't got the time right now. I will let LL have her fun with him now and then he will be ready to settle down. hehehehehe! I would loooove to go back to NY and really look around. My brother told me to do modeling with him and I could. Like farts I would. I ain't straving myself for no one. I hate when they say. "Oh you look good. But you would look even better if you lost..." Oh go suck on a straw...lol Ha, those models are way too skinny!
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Post by torisweettooth on Sept 16, 2008 9:48:06 GMT -5
Right.
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Post by crowwoman on Sept 21, 2008 13:39:12 GMT -5
Gerreeee... You're inconsistent, buttercup. One time you say you don't date anymore and you enjoy your single status, another time you mumble about being tired of playing on this field. Honey, how can you be tired playing if you don't play? And which one of your words we are to believe? Huh?
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Post by Dianne on Sept 22, 2008 22:06:19 GMT -5
Gerreeee... You're inconsistent, buttercup. One time you say you don't date anymore and you enjoy your single status, another time you mumble about being tired of playing on this field. Honey, how can you be tired playing if you don't play? And which one of your words we are to believe? Huh? Crow you really seem to have a handle on what makes this man tick...what is your opinion of what goes through his head? My opinion is fear of abandonment. I knew a few guys like that....They really wanted to settle and then when they got a great gal they would pick her appart until they found the right thing to cause them to not want to be with her, or play hot and cold until the gal throws her hands up in the air...All from fear of getting their heart broken. One of the men dated me and I really liked him...things were going well and he quit calling....I kind of knew what he was doing...his father and a drinking problem and his mother was bi-polar and then she commited suicide. He just quit calling after we started a relationship. No reason why and he broke my heart...I just let it go and didn't persue him...kind of cut him loose. I didn't even call him to find out why. He stood me up on a date I called once and he didn't answer the phone and I never called him again...It blew his mind and he came around to check on me....I was always nice and was kind of like, "Sorry it didn't work out." I never called him a jerk, I just wished him well. He went off scratching his head....Soon after I met my hubby and as soon as I was in a commited relationship he started coming to my work and hinting he wanted me back....Kind of like he wanted what he couldn't have. I knew if I had been dumb enough to drop my boyfriend for him he would have gotten cold feet again and ran scared. My theory is Gerry is afraid of commitment....What is yours.
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Post by torisweettooth on Sept 23, 2008 10:52:41 GMT -5
That he is a momma's boy and wants a woman like his mother. No one compares though. I see that a lot too. But maybe its 3 things.
Indecisive, commitment issue and momma's boy. Sounds like GB. :-)
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Post by Dianne on Sept 23, 2008 13:15:17 GMT -5
That he is a momma's boy and wants a woman like his mother. No one compares though. I see that a lot too. But maybe its 3 things. Indecisive, commitment issue and momma's boy. Sounds like GB. :-) If he was a sensitive child which from what I read he seems to have been his father leaving the family may have started the abandoment issues. I've seen picture of him with his mother...He loves mom...you can see it... that in itself would make him great husband material if any girl can snag him. If his is the abandonment issue.....He needs a woman to play hard to get and knock him down a few pegs....That would be hard to do with a hunk like him on the line....but make him think he is lucky to have you and he would be hot on your heals....
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Post by torisweettooth on Sept 23, 2008 14:43:21 GMT -5
I have that problem. I play waaaaay to hard to get when I have the hotts for the guy. I can't control it. Its like Bitch comes out just cause I find him hot. Well not hot only. Has to be hot and cool to be around.
Mike said he didn't know if I really wanted him for the longest. Even when I pushed him up on the wall and just kissed him senseless at a bar we met at. Granted I was frustrated over last guy and it was a dare from friends to kiss a stranger but I took what he had non the less. THHHEEEENNNNN he started persuing me harder and finally he got me.
for nooooooooooooooooooow. hehehehe
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Post by sassenach on Sept 23, 2008 15:10:20 GMT -5
What's going on inside our beloved Scot's mind ? ANYTHING - and i mean it.... He may be very well afraid of commitment for fear of loss, as very well said, or he just can be a mommy's spoiled boy, or an insecure narcissus. Last but not least, he just could not be that much into women....here i said it ! I will be VERY heart broken if that is the case, and totally lose faith in maleship ( is it a word?) , yet besides the romantic fool i am, lies a cynic Cruella d' Evil . She first appeared soon after Rock Hutson was out of the closet and became more and more powerful with Richard's Chamberlain case ( the once hearthrob Ralf de Bricassart) and of that Greek actor i told you about.... Please, don't throw me rotten tomatoes or anything harder..... STILL, I pray that's not Gerard's case.....
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Post by Dianne on Sept 23, 2008 15:31:22 GMT -5
What's going on inside our beloved Scot's mind ? ANYTHING - and i mean it.... He may be very well afraid of commitment for fear of loss, as very well said, or he just can be a mommy's spoiled boy, or an insecure narcissus. Last but not least, he just could not be that much into women....here i said it ! I will be VERY heart broken if that is the case, and totally lose faith in maleship ( is it a word?) , yet besides the romantic fool i am, lies a cynic Cruella d' Evil . She first appeared soon after Rock Hutson was out of the closet and became more and more powerful with Richard's Chamberlain case ( the once hearthrob Ralf de Bricassart) and of that Greek actor i told you about.... Please, don't throw me rotten tomatoes or anything harder..... STILL, I pray that's not Gerard's case..... Don't worry there will always be speculation....anyway this is a safe place to post and you say what you want.
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Post by torisweettooth on Sept 23, 2008 15:31:30 GMT -5
Man the day I found out Rock Hutson was gay I couldn't believe it. He was such a man's man. How 'not' far from the truth that turned out to be.
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Post by crowwoman on Sept 23, 2008 15:42:25 GMT -5
Crow you really seem to have a handle on what makes this man tick...what is your opinion of what goes through his head? My opinion is fear of abandonment. I knew a few guys like that....They really wanted to settle and then when they got a great gal they would pick her appart until they found the right thing to cause them to not want to be with her, or play hot and cold until the gal throws her hands up in the air...All from fear of getting their heart broken. Basically I agree with you that he is afraid of commitments. I feel (yeah, it is more a feeling than reasoning) that he can have some serious trust issues. That he might find it extremely hard to open on another person. I have his one statement ringing in my ears: If you really know me you wouldn't like me. This is very strong statement. It seems Gerard doesn't believe that he can be loved. So, he is afraid to get closer, to open, because he is afraid he would be rejected then, as he is "unlovable". A person who thinks like that has a disaster for a love life, that's inevitable. someone had to betray his trust extremely badly in the past...
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Post by torisweettooth on Sept 23, 2008 16:34:42 GMT -5
This is turning so sad. (sniffs) Seriously dudes...
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