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Post by Mary on Mar 26, 2009 12:25:04 GMT -5
and you met and he wanted you as his girlfriend/lover/wife?
Would you leave your current partner? This is a question pertaining to my story (part 2).
I have thought about this and if I KNEW for a fact that I was his ONLY bed mate and he wanted me for life....I still wouldnt know what to do. I would miss my current bf seriously bad, but then again, I would be with Gerry!! I know this may sound cold, but if I knew the real Gerry and I liked him as a person and this was a choice I had to make....I would say yes, I would go with Gerry...
Well, maybe not....I dont KNOW!!!
What would you do in this situation?
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Post by ava on Mar 26, 2009 13:24:05 GMT -5
Im single...can I although say my thought ?
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Post by Mary on Mar 26, 2009 13:59:34 GMT -5
sure!
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Post by LFCgirl on Mar 26, 2009 14:02:37 GMT -5
I'm single too so I wouldn't have the leaving my partner problem. But I'd only go with him if we got along and the chemistry and all that was there but I wouldn't otherwise. Also if I was still with my ex-bf yes I'd leave him for Gerry and not regret it.
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Post by ava on Mar 26, 2009 14:50:44 GMT -5
'I agree lfc. I would leave my bf if really everthing is fitting between G and me it must take more than that but I wouldnt say it here soo...maybe yes...´cause I havent that "more than that" yet with any bf. its not the special thing just a thing only I know and I choose my Bf´s for that but noone had it filled till today SOOO damn yes if Gerry does that than yes I would leave my BF
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Post by LFCgirl on Mar 26, 2009 14:54:55 GMT -5
same here Ava, all my ex bfs have been nice guys but there wasn't that something special or extreme chemistry with them. One day we'll find them!!
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Post by Mary on Mar 26, 2009 15:23:39 GMT -5
Same here....Ive been with my BF for 6 1/2 yrs too. If Gerry had genuine feelings me and vice versa and we got along and laughed and had lots in common (which I think we do) and had killer sex.......then yes, I would tell my man ADIOS!!
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Post by ava on Mar 26, 2009 15:33:19 GMT -5
yeah sounds not nice but damn yeah! Mine ex were nice too and kind and stuff but I never was fuelly filled...with love and...I just wasnt blessedly...thats whatta need ...to find some peace in my lifetime partner... Hey....Geeeeeeerbear....come here
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Post by sassenach on Mar 26, 2009 16:21:00 GMT -5
I'm single, so no real dillemma. If the chemistry was OK, then i would absolutely go into it.... Otherwise, fame and money don't really "flow my boat".....
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Post by LFCgirl on Mar 26, 2009 17:28:25 GMT -5
yeah fame and money aren't permanent but someone's personality and hopefully the chemistry you have with them are a lot more so.
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Post by Dianne on Mar 26, 2009 17:52:37 GMT -5
and you met and he wanted you as his girlfriend/lover/wife? Would you leave your current partner? This is a question pertaining to my story (part 2). I have thought about this and if I KNEW for a fact that I was his ONLY bed mate and he wanted me for life....I still wouldnt know what to do. I would miss my current bf seriously bad, but then again, I would be with Gerry!! I know this may sound cold, but if I knew the real Gerry and I liked him as a person and this was a choice I had to make....I would say yes, I would go with Gerry... Well, maybe not....I dont KNOW!!! What would you do in this situation? No, I don't say to much about my husband other than he plays off that he's jealous of Gerry. I think there is a smidge of him that is because he is pretty serious when he says he will not watch a Gerry movie with me... HA! But I wouldn't get close enough to Gerry for him to give me that kind of option. If I met him I would be happy with a picture and an autograph. I really am fortunate to be married to my soul mate. He's handsome himself 6'2" like Gerry 210 lbs and we finish each others sentences. Can't ask for better than that.
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Post by Dianne on Mar 26, 2009 17:59:11 GMT -5
I always said though and I am dead serious; if I was fortuanate enough to be at a casual party with Gerry I would stick to him like glue. Not because he's incredibly handsome but for the pure entertainment. I LOVE his sense of humor and I know he would be a laugh a minute.
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Post by Joy on Mar 26, 2009 20:29:02 GMT -5
I'm with Di, No way I would leave my sweetie for Gerry he is just pretty to look at. My Jedi Mind Tricks have worked on him and he will watch GB movies once.
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Post by Mary on Mar 27, 2009 8:56:54 GMT -5
Well, Im fortunate too to be with John, we, too finish each others sentences and have the same thoughts at the same time alot, but I just feel like SOMETHING is missing. I dont know what it is...I feel like he is my soulmate but he just isnt affectionate sometimes....I think it h as to do with his childhood....he wasnt abused or anything bad like that..its a long story.
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Post by Dianne on Mar 27, 2009 9:06:13 GMT -5
That could be a big issue in the future. How's the sex? Nothing like being blunt, eh?
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