gertiewoodring
Gerard Butler watcher
Im in heaven when I think of u...
hello to the ladies that have this obssesion of all our favorate man how have u all been good i hope
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Post by gertiewoodring on May 20, 2012 17:45:06 GMT -5
 Hello ladies, I'M BACK FOR NOW. This Board is my callgon escape  Have been having the worst year ever. For I have alot of people that I love dearly,hVE BEEN IN A BAD WAY. 1 went threw about with breast cancer,2 sister has been diagenoused with a bad mental illness big nightmare,3 little sister needs a historectomy.4my mom-in-law herart quit and she fell and it started back but she was in the hospital for a while and I stayed with her, 5 as i was gone a strom cause a tree to hit my mommas and dayys house,causing the tv,microwave and some other things to catch fire.  6 my job  might be playing out soon. But on the up note I get one hear and its like my GERARD CALLGON takes me away.  Don't know what I would do without this site and all u great ladies u guys make me smlie laugh cry and die in a good way with the pictures of our favorite man. Getting of the pitty soap box for now but thanks to all that post things to read and photos. Gerards Dirty angel devil.
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MyPhantomGerry
Junior Gerard Butler Fan
Gerard my angel of music[ss:Just Gerry]
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Post by MyPhantomGerry on May 20, 2012 19:04:52 GMT -5
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Post by fifiserafino on May 22, 2012 20:57:01 GMT -5
Gertie what is Callgon? I'm curious  |
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Post by Dianne on May 22, 2012 21:04:09 GMT -5
Gertie what is Callgon? I'm curious It's bath salts that smell really good. |
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Post by Dianne on May 22, 2012 21:08:01 GMT -5
Will you be fantasizing about Gerry while reading 50 Shades of Gray?  |
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Post by tantemilli on May 26, 2012 15:16:53 GMT -5
well i will for sure!! lol awesome snl clip!!!
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gertiewoodring
Gerard Butler watcher
Im in heaven when I think of u...
hello to the ladies that have this obssesion of all our favorate man how have u all been good i hope
Posts: 124
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Post by gertiewoodring on Jun 2, 2012 23:59:33 GMT -5
Hell I do that 24/7#, all I have to do is just think of him and I'm there a million miles away from my life.
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gertiewoodring
Gerard Butler watcher
Im in heaven when I think of u...
hello to the ladies that have this obssesion of all our favorate man how have u all been good i hope
Posts: 124
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Post by gertiewoodring on Jun 17, 2012 2:50:23 GMT -5
SHIT SHIT SHIT FUCKING SHIT. My life is so screwed up. so confused,so distroied. After loving my man ,my jim, 24 yrs he says that he loves me but no longger inlove dosnt want to hurt me but he thinks we should end it and know im gonna have to start my life over. What the hell, I'm on my knees God just dont know what the hell to do anymore.Fill as if Icant breath. PLease Lord please, I need u. please dont for sake me. I'm scared and so feaking hurt what am I supposed to do.
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gertiewoodring
Gerard Butler watcher
Im in heaven when I think of u...
hello to the ladies that have this obssesion of all our favorate man how have u all been good i hope
Posts: 124
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Post by gertiewoodring on Jun 17, 2012 2:52:19 GMT -5
sorry for the miss spelling just a little upset.
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kaahumanu
Gerard Butler watcher
My favorite "look" is the way he looks whenever I look at him.[ss:Simply Hair Porn]
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Post by kaahumanu on Jun 17, 2012 3:48:53 GMT -5
God bless you Gertie. I'm new to the forums. I haven't seen half the pain you've described here but I've been through a painful loss that won't ever heal ... so I can almost understand a little of what you're feeling. Wish I had words of wisdom that would make you feel better ... but there aren't words that will do any real good. Just know that all of us here are on your team and wishing you a little peace and comfort. Come back here every day to connect to the rest of us Gerry-lovers. We'll hold you up and help you through. Well ... Gerry will help you through. He's pretty good medicine.
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larue
Gerard Butler watcher
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Post by larue on Jun 17, 2012 5:53:44 GMT -5
Gertie, I can't begin to know what you're feeling. All I can say is: breathe, just breathe. Keep breathing. Just hold on and keep holding on.
There is a great support system here, some ladies will have good advice for you, all of us will care.
So just breathe. Right now, you don't have to do anything else.
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Post by kaly11 on Jun 17, 2012 10:22:19 GMT -5
SHIT SHIT SHIT FUCKING SHIT. My life is so screwed up. so confused,so distroied. After loving my man ,my jim, 24 yrs he says that he loves me but no longger inlove dosnt want to hurt me but he thinks we should end it and know im gonna have to start my life over. What the hell, I'm on my knees God just dont know what the hell to do anymore.Fill as if Icant breath. PLease Lord please, I need u. please dont for sake me. I'm scared and so feaking hurt what am I supposed to do. Several years ago I went through a devastating loss such as you describe and everyone must find their own way to get through each day until time has a chance to heal. For me the healing began with reading, immersing myself in a fantasy world so I would not have to deal with the reality of the pain. Eventually, I was told by a Scottish friend since childhood to read the Outlander Series and from there found Gerry on a fan video about the Outlander Series. Slowly I started researching G and his movies and began lurking here.....never left. At one point I was listening to Phantom of the Opera music all day and watching Gerry movies all evening. Sounds crazy, but for me it worked. My wish for you is that you find your own path and dive into whatever it is and in time have a different perspective like the song Someone That I Used To Know (my favorite at the moment.) Here is a sample of the songs from Phantom that I leaned on, maybe you will see the seduction power his voice as well. Take care of yourself, let people help you until you are stronger and search for a diversion until you are able to cope and you may be surprised what the future holds, I was. www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y9yI7bN3bfA another www.youtube.com/watch?v=NmUwyNBvEcg |
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Post by judi on Jun 17, 2012 12:18:18 GMT -5
God bless you Gertie. I'm new to the forums. I haven't seen half the pain you've described here but I've been through a painful loss that won't ever heal ... so I can almost understand a little of what you're feeling. Wish I had words of wisdom that would make you feel better ... but there aren't words that will do any real good. Just know that all of us here are on your team and wishing you a little peace and comfort. Come back here every day to connect to the rest of us Gerry-lovers. We'll hold you up and help you through. Well ... Gerry will help you through. He's pretty good medicine. I have lost a lot of people in my life, one after the other, I heard someone once say, 'you never get used to it, you get better at it' about losing her husband. I don't think I knew quite what she meant then. I think I do now. Hang in there , the grief you feel might never be something you 'get over' but you will wake up one day and not feel like it runs your life. Cling to the positive things in your life and one day you will not just feel the loss but the happy memories. Take one day at a time. Take strength from your friends and your friends here. It will pass. It won't be painful in the way that it is now. Let yourself feel that when it does happen, don't feel guilty about not feeling bad all the time, sometimes people punish themselves as if they are being unfaithful to their loss. You are not as alone as you might feel right now, Sweetie. |
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Post by judi on Jun 17, 2012 12:20:13 GMT -5
That was meant for Gertie, sorry I quoted Kaly by mistake. Hell it's for everyone who needs it.
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Post by dawne27 on Jun 17, 2012 15:38:51 GMT -5
SHIT SHIT SHIT FUCKING SHIT. My life is so screwed up. so confused,so distroied. After loving my man ,my jim, 24 yrs he says that he loves me but no longger inlove dosnt want to hurt me but he thinks we should end it and know im gonna have to start my life over. What the hell, I'm on my knees God just dont know what the hell to do anymore.Fill as if Icant breath. PLease Lord please, I need u. please dont for sake me. I'm scared and so feaking hurt what am I supposed to do. darn you, you hellish Fates!! gertie, our darling bud....we really get a sense of your pain right now. SO sorry that you're going through all of this stuff. at every corner, at every turn seems impale you against brick, harshly and unrelenting! without sounding cliche' - 'this too shall pass'........ your man says he 'loves you but isn't inlove' after 24 years? ask him ((and do NOT beg, buckle or break) simply & plainly when exactly did his lust wane? sometimes over a long relationship people get bored, too used to each other, loose interest not only in the other but themselves, frustrated, wanting more but is timid & unsure 'how' to ask or 'how' to get it...... sometimes men after awhile crave that ol' thrill. ((women too)). change is a good thing. sometimes there's pain involved...but, out of the cataclysmic eruption - new life springs forth. don't despair gertie. take a look as to the meaning behind why this man feels the way he does?? if you let anger & bitterness overtake you b/c of the years of your devotion and faith - you'll not see the answer you need to grow and move forward dear. depending on the type of relationship you've established with each other over the years?? there is one thing very certain - there is love, kinship & that is a very strong bond. take a deep breath dear gertie. take time to consider and think 'where' the relationship is, how it got there, and where you BOTH would envision for the future. sometimes 'we' MUST take two steps back to get the clear picture of the here and now to make way for the future. max erhman wrote in the 'desiderata' 'love is as perennial as the grass....' it will always bloom but not always in the 'way' you expected....i relate to your heartache, i am 'inlove' with someone who doesn't even know i exist 'ouch' and i'm not too sure how much more my heart can take! real flesh & blood is whats needed. not this weird unescapeable plight!! anyway, my prayers will go out to you this night dear gertie. all will be well... just take it step by step xxoo in peace dawne |
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