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Dec 10, 2008 21:45:43 GMT -5
Post by irishseductress on Dec 10, 2008 21:45:43 GMT -5
I have an odd feeling he has a problem with commitment. He needs a girl to play hard to get. At last a point where we disagree Dianne! I think the girl that captures Gerry will be a girl that will be herself sweet honest upfront but not quick to jump in the sack. As a Scorpio he has a outrageous libido. She has to let him know she cares but don't allow him to push. She can't play games he would never trust her again. As he begins to trust and open up then they will have a chance to make it work. Thats how I see it. I absolutely, agree with what you just said Joy. That's why I think he shouldn't be "dating" these model type "women" because they aren't what he should be with in the first place.
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Dec 10, 2008 22:00:30 GMT -5
Post by Joy on Dec 10, 2008 22:00:30 GMT -5
At last a point where we disagree Dianne! I think the girl that captures Gerry will be a girl that will be herself sweet honest upfront but not quick to jump in the sack. As a Scorpio he has a outrageous libido. She has to let him know she cares but don't allow him to push. She can't play games he would never trust her again. As he begins to trust and open up then they will have a chance to make it work. Thats how I see it. I absolutely, agree with what you just said Joy. That's why I think he shouldn't be "dating" these model type "women" because they aren't what he should be with in the first place. Yeah but hes got that "Y" chromasome he is wealthy and good looking OK hot. Think of our site how many members do we have? Some of us just talk the talk but how many would really beready and willing to out out if he showed up at their door with nothing on but a ribbon on his bagpipe? I'd be afraid to gess. It will take time and he is not a patient person.
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Dec 10, 2008 23:29:17 GMT -5
Post by irishseductress on Dec 10, 2008 23:29:17 GMT -5
Please, don't throw tomatoes - or other veggies at me- yet i have the feeling that deep inside him there is an insecurity and a low- self estimation which keeps him from a long relationship. He just doesn't give the chance of been seeing profoundly cause he's afraid of what his mate could came up with.... Does it makes any sense ? Besides, his father run away from the family certainly hasn't restore his feelings about commitment .... Exactly Sassenach! He's afraid of being abandoned and thats why he keeps others at arms length, not letting them get close to him. I know it sounds crazy but thats what I feel.
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Dec 11, 2008 14:02:03 GMT -5
Post by sassenach on Dec 11, 2008 14:02:03 GMT -5
You know, Irish, this isn't so crazy after all.... Remember he said in one of his interviews that he identified so much with Phantom's loneliness and desperate feelings. Well, according to his biography, he was the younger child ( that means the most "spoiled" more or less and always famous in school and University). Not a pariah, at all ! Being able to feel the loneliness of a character like Phantom to the point of literally starting crying, means he has as a person some well hidden wounds and insecurities. And he's a Scorpio - that means he will die first before admit any weakness or ask for support. He's extrovert persona is a perfect camouflage. His inability to get close with a person in real life - or let others get close to him- is a proof of the dark side. And i can't help adding a quote of a dear friend of mine "...and that is what makes chicks fall like flies!"
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Dec 12, 2008 20:15:45 GMT -5
Post by Dianne on Dec 12, 2008 20:15:45 GMT -5
I will say again and again if he could find a woman that would play hard to get, one that is secure with herself to not put up with any crap he would have to chase and one that would convince him that he is lucky to have her. He would fall hard. But being gorgeous and a movie star and carasmatic...wow that's a tall order. How many of us would be waiting by the phone? And that is most definitely what he wouldn't want.
The gal that he was at the arcade with and they sucked face and then they left seperately....I must say, I have never.....and I mean never gone out on a date and not had the guy see me home safe....not a good sign.
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Dec 12, 2008 22:51:49 GMT -5
Post by irishseductress on Dec 12, 2008 22:51:49 GMT -5
I will say again and again if he could find a woman that would play hard to get, one that is secure with herself to not put up with any crap he would have to chase and one that would convince him that he is lucky to have her. He would fall hard. But being gorgeous and a movie star and carasmatic...wow that's a tall order. How many of us would be waiting by the phone? And that is most definitely what he wouldn't want. The gal that he was at the arcade with and they sucked face and then they left seperately....I must say, I have never.....and I mean never gone out on a date and not had the guy see me home safe....not a good sign. You're right about that Dianne. All he has to do is stop looking and just wait for the RIGHT girl to come into his life. She ain't gonna fall in his lap any time soon. Oh and that whole leaving his date on her own thing is just stupid. A gentleman is to always accompany his date to and from the respected location and that a gentleman is to open doors and offer his arm and be respectful of her. Gerry could take some tips from my younger brother on how to act like a real gentleman. Women like real men not little boys. Ok I'm done ranting
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Dec 12, 2008 23:18:32 GMT -5
Post by Joy on Dec 12, 2008 23:18:32 GMT -5
He could take some lessons from my 17 year old boys.
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Dec 13, 2008 10:14:19 GMT -5
Post by torisweettooth on Dec 13, 2008 10:14:19 GMT -5
He needs a girl to play hard to get. I wonder if that is possible Its possible...trust me.
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Dec 13, 2008 17:48:40 GMT -5
Post by Dianne on Dec 13, 2008 17:48:40 GMT -5
If that girl had been smart, after he had said, "I'll meet you at the arcade..." she would have made face and said, "You mean you're not going to pick me up?" Then when he looked a little shocked because well you know....he's G Butler....then she should have acted pissed. He would have been falling over himself to make it up to her.... "Well, yeah I can pick you up..." If she's even smarter she won't drop it yet.... "Well if you don't have time to come and get me...I mean... well maybe we should forget it"... Then let him grovel....Dating is a game that needs to be played carefully especially with someone like him. Instead look what happened, she met him at the arcade...he publically mauled her, (which I'm sure was enjoyable) but then he sent her on her way.... If a guy is going to publically maul me he can pick me up in his car first.
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Dec 15, 2008 1:39:21 GMT -5
Post by irishseductress on Dec 15, 2008 1:39:21 GMT -5
If that girl had been smart, after he had said, "I'll meet you at the arcade..." she would have made face and said, "You mean you're not going to pick me up?" Then when he looked a little shocked because well you know....he's G Butler....then she should have acted pissed. He would have been falling over himself to make it up to her.... "Well, yeah I can pick you up..." If she's even smarter she won't drop it yet.... "Well if you don't have time to come and get me...I mean... well maybe we should forget it"... Then let him grovel....Dating is a game that needs to be played carefully especially with someone like him. Instead look what happened, she met him at the arcade...he publically mauled her, (which I'm sure was enjoyable) but then he sent her on her way.... If a guy is going to publically maul me he can pick me up in his car first. Oh my gosh that is funny Dianne lol
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Dec 15, 2008 5:43:19 GMT -5
Post by Dianne on Dec 15, 2008 5:43:19 GMT -5
If that girl had been smart, after he had said, "I'll meet you at the arcade..." she would have made face and said, "You mean you're not going to pick me up?" Then when he looked a little shocked because well you know....he's G Butler....then she should have acted pissed. He would have been falling over himself to make it up to her.... "Well, yeah I can pick you up..." If she's even smarter she won't drop it yet.... "Well if you don't have time to come and get me...I mean... well maybe we should forget it"... Then let him grovel....Dating is a game that needs to be played carefully especially with someone like him. Instead look what happened, she met him at the arcade...he publically mauled her, (which I'm sure was enjoyable) but then he sent her on her way.... If a guy is going to publically maul me he can pick me up in his car first. Oh my gosh that is funny Dianne lol She did come out of that arcade afterward with an afterglow...but she needs to notice that she is not on the red carpet with him. Not a good sign. What he's saying to that without speaking is: You are the flavor of the month but very replaceable and he's not even acknowleding her as a girlfriend. And Irish...HA!
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Dec 15, 2008 12:01:57 GMT -5
Post by torisweettooth on Dec 15, 2008 12:01:57 GMT -5
Oh my gosh that is funny Dianne lol She did come out of that arcade afterward with an afterglow...but she needs to notice that she is not on the red carpet with him. Not a good sign. What he's saying to that without speaking is: You are the flavor of the month but very replaceable and he's not even acknowleding her as a girlfriend. And Irish...HA! "Well if you don't have time to come and get me...I mean... well maybe we should forget it"...that right there is total BS. I mean if I can see through that then GB would. I mean if i was him or any guy, I would just pause and be like. "Okay well if your fine with us not going then, cool." And walk away...wanna play games? 'ight! Now if you wanna be smooth about it then do as I would. Be straight with him. "Alright, I am assuming that this is a one time thing, right? Why the arcade? Why not just go back to your place? I mean that is what you are after right?" Now when he is studdering. I would laugh and be like..."wow get out much? It's just a hook up. Unless you are different? I mean most guys don't have the nads to try and make it work. Soooo my car or yours?" And that ladies is how you make sure you are either driving or riding!! Thank you.
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Dec 15, 2008 13:38:24 GMT -5
Post by irishseductress on Dec 15, 2008 13:38:24 GMT -5
Oh my gosh that is funny Dianne lol She did come out of that arcade afterward with an afterglow...but she needs to notice that she is not on the red carpet with him. Not a good sign. What he's saying to that without speaking is: You are the flavor of the month but very replaceable and he's not even acknowleding her as a girlfriend. And Irish...HA! I wonder what facial cream she's usin' to get that glow? lol
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Dec 15, 2008 13:46:45 GMT -5
Post by torisweettooth on Dec 15, 2008 13:46:45 GMT -5
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Dec 15, 2008 23:03:44 GMT -5
Post by irishseductress on Dec 15, 2008 23:03:44 GMT -5
HA! Must be white and sticky or something.... ...oooo bad llama, that was naughty of me. HAHAHAHA
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