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Post by princetongal on Nov 27, 2009 9:45:33 GMT -5
www.gossipcenter.com/gerard-butler/photo/gerard-butler-177?profile=192633LOTS of pics in the attached. He was coming out of this club at 3AM and had a private dinner with friends, but of course they tabloids are only mentioning the single ladies that were there - it never stops for The Butler. Couple of observations: 1. He looks GREAT!!!  Somehow it seems he is aging backwards. He seriously looks younger now than he did 2 years ago when filming Gamer or TUT. He looks younger lately! 2. Love his coat 3. His eye looks alot better, but still has a bit of red 4. Love his natural hair color and love the way his hair looks here! 5. He appears to have some weird ring on his left hand. I bet a gift. It seems huge and weird, but maybe he feels obligated to wear it. LOL! 6. His body is smoking hot!!! 7. Gerry is BATMAN! He sleeps all day and hangs out all night. I swear, I bet he gets to a club at 11:00 or midnight and hangs out to 3:00 (closing) every single time. He cannot stay home. Thank God he is sober. If he drank can you imagine the trouble he would be in and how horrible he would look by now. He would look like Val Kilmer by now. Ouch!!!! 8. ...lastly and most importantly....TIGHT JEANS!!!!!!!!!!! 
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Post by sophiero on Nov 27, 2009 13:41:18 GMT -5
Our Gerry is a restless, hyperactive guy. I could just see him as a little boy, I bet he never stopped. I have a feeling the real Gerry would be way too much for me. But I will happily take a clone, sort of a cross of Gerry Kennedy & Mike Chadway with just enough of Gerry liveliness and bad boy antics to keep things interesting, but loves a good snuggly evening at home.
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Post by princetongal on Nov 27, 2009 13:47:41 GMT -5
I can't see him settling down! I just cant...unless he marries a rock star, LOL!
I had a dream a week or so ago about Gerry in where he did an interview and he said that his fathers dying words to him were 'never get married! If you want children do that and take care of your kids, but don't marry the mother, live with her if you want but never marry in your lifetime'. Isn't that strange!?!? As he was saying this, he giggled the entire time so it almost seemed like a joke...of course it was a dream so I didn't matter.
Somehow that would not shock me though. I bet he has no intentions of settling down, but throws it out there for his more traditional fans to fodder. I hope I am wrong because it should be a crime for this man not to procreate. We must see little Butlers from this man. They will be beautiful!
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Post by sophiero on Nov 27, 2009 14:48:15 GMT -5
Not everyone is is meant to marry, its smart not to in fact, particularly if he knows he can't make it stick. I can see him drift into some sort of stable relationship when he hits his late 40's. But he might never marry.
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Post by princetongal on Nov 27, 2009 16:44:42 GMT -5
I agree with that! In fact, according to recent statistics Gerry is in the minority of Americans (at least) who now shows 52%/unmarried to 48%/married!  It sucks for him they try to make it a big deal....UGH! Gerry why are you single? Gerry why havent you met Mrs. Right? Gerry when are you going to settle down? |
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Post by Leppardlady on Nov 27, 2009 18:02:11 GMT -5
I had a dream once that I had Gerry's baby; the dream didn't actually start until I was already in the hospital waiting to deliver, so I missed the fun procreating part... I also missed the actual birthing due to waking up and having to use the bathroom.
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Post by dawne27 on Nov 27, 2009 18:03:56 GMT -5
OKAY! prince and sophie...can't stand it anymore...Thar she blows! (unwrapping to unleash her big, gapping pie-hole mouth....  ).... alrighty then ladies....i don't think personally gerry's remotely close to an ADHD, ADD, ABCD, XYZ'er or, something like that. agreed, not everyone 'fits' into marriage. it can be a tricky business finding your 'soulmate'.(so sorry to hear about his dad's remark on deathbed which is very hard place to be anyway, let alone filled with remorse for relationships gone sour....our hearts are so easily ripped away) gerry NEEDs to be in a healthy, secure union. i'm afraid he's got a lot to grapple with. i have a feeling he's 'met' his (soulmate). only he knows for sure. this IS his private life we're speculating about. (shrugs) i would feel just aweful, sincerely, even to consider this lovely man to be alone for the rest of his life. yep. alone. you can have a whole string of multiple lovers & friends, coming and going, you can have your work, involvements, goals & plans....but, you wake up alone. it doesn't matter. he needs someone to be his friend, lover, buddy. someone to keep his freedom & art intact yet offer security & warmth. all the wonderful aspects that bring men & women together...you know...'bone of my bones, flesh of my flesh'...i hope he secures it for himself. soon. okay...i'm done. did i kill another thread? LOL...just shoot me now, please put me out of my misery.....  |
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Post by princetongal on Nov 27, 2009 19:46:51 GMT -5
Gerry is NOT lonely!
It's his choice to not settle down. I am sure he has fallen in love 100's of times and actually considered popping the question... Hell, for all we know he did a few times and called it off or vice versa. Bottom line is I think we all tend (myself included) to get to precious about his personal life. This man is not unhappy! He is happy and enjoying life. He may indeed be a bit ADD, but I will say that I know few people who can go through Law School as ADD, having done it myself. He is smart, focused and a very very hard worker. He can be single and be happy. I have more single friends than married ones and several who swear they want to remain single. It's a choice not a disease!
There...my own two cents!
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Post by Dianne on Nov 27, 2009 20:18:50 GMT -5
Love the trench coat! I have a new fantasy; Gerry + trench coat and nothing else but an evil smile. Then he flashes me!  |
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Post by dawne27 on Nov 27, 2009 20:56:46 GMT -5
Gerry is NOT lonely! There...my own two cents! HA! we welcome your 2 cents anytime princeton. listen, we're all entitled to our opinions and speculations, right? only gerry knows his comings & going for sure. he alone knows his own heart & destiny. his choices which are quite frankly, vast and abundant. i'm sure...a place to be envied at best by most. personally, i've got two very long term friends, one female & one male, who choose not to marry or have children. and their lives are full, complete and satisfying. i myself, being newly single, love my private time. its healthy to be comfortable in your own skin, whether you're with others or not. there's so much to do. but, on the other hand...loneliness is an attitude between the ears. we all fall prey to this feeling at times, whether we're single, married, in a crowded place, etc....it is a feeling without conscience or boundaries. (shrugs). there is nothing wrong with it. its natural. if it lingers too long though....it needs to be addressed? yes. i've come to a conclusion....barbara streisand...'people who need people'...it's all about relationships and intimacy. this is important. allowing others to love you and then sharing you love with others is fulfilling/settling. lonesomeness backs down to love. (smile) |
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Post by princetongal on Nov 27, 2009 21:33:16 GMT -5
dawne, I certainly don't disgree. Love is the most important thing in the World for all of us! Love comes in many forms and from many places, not just in intimate/sexual relationships. Gerry has plenty of Love in his life. Love from his family and his abundance of friends. A wife or serious long-term girlfriend will only be icing on the cake for him. He seemingly has it all. I never hear him complain about being single, he is asked alot about it and it seems to bother some media types and some fans more than it bothers him. A relationship would be great for him. I for one would be thrilled if he settled down, but my opinion stands that he does not need to settle down to be happy or to be (*WARNING* corny line coming) complete him - ick...I hate that saying, but you get my point!  |
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Post by Leppardlady on Nov 27, 2009 21:51:59 GMT -5
I have told the girls at work the same thing: I do not plan on getting married... even if I find Mr. Right, I don't think I want to take that walk down the aisle. I can be just as happy spending the rest of my life living with a man in sin (that sounds bad coming from a girl who was raised Catholic, but I refuse to let anyone, even the Roman Catholic Church, telling me how to live my life.).
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Post by I'm in Oklahoma Gerard! on Nov 27, 2009 23:18:07 GMT -5
 It's so funny that this discussion came up today. I had a dream last night that it was posted all over Facebook that he was getting married. There was some picture of him leaving a restaurant with Priyanka and it was getting reposted like mad. Anyway, in my dream my friends were all in a tizzy because they thought he and I were hanging out. So they're all messaging me trying to find out what's going on. I tell them not to worry, he was just misquoted and misunderstood when he said he was "getting attached". Apparently there are gossip rags even in my dreams and they posted the picture of him with Priyanka because of his cheeky proposal earlier this year. I let them know that it didn't mean he was getting married, just that he was enjoying spending time with me. What a great dream, huh?
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Post by princetongal on Nov 28, 2009 6:29:55 GMT -5
ummmmmmmmm....Priyanka!
I wonder when the Indian hussy will resurface (joking)!?
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Post by Dianne on Nov 28, 2009 8:56:58 GMT -5
ummmmmmmmm....Priyanka! I wonder when the Indian hussy will resurface (joking)!? I thought she was supposed to be visiting New York in the near future? |
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