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Post by pilar on Mar 27, 2009 0:25:16 GMT -5
Good for you!
*kiss*
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Post by Dianne on Mar 27, 2009 3:42:13 GMT -5
I was an idiot for marrying my first husband. Then I dated a few toads and slowly smartened up. I decide to do the three strikes your out philosophy, because a man will reveal his true nature fairly fast. I knew what I wanted and did not hang around long with a guy if I found him inconsiderate. When I copped that attitude I had a few guys fairly shocked when I kicked them to the curb so quickly.
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Post by xanoquita on Mar 27, 2009 4:03:22 GMT -5
I've been alone for 3 years now, since I got divorced.
I don't go out much either. I haven't had a single flirt all this time. Sometimes it makes me feel bad. I'm not that old (I'll be 39 next month) and I'm not that ugly...
Usually I deal with that pretty well, but some days are difficult. I don't really want a relationship, but it would be nice to feel that you're still atractive to someone.
Sometimes I feel that that part of my life is so over...
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Post by LFCgirl on Mar 27, 2009 6:27:34 GMT -5
aww Xan I totally understand. I don't really get flirted with or anything these days, and I'll be 39 this year too. I feel that same way too sometimes. Especially being back in school I feel like everyone's mom lol.
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Post by xanoquita on Mar 27, 2009 7:37:07 GMT -5
aww Xan I totally understand. I don't really get flirted with or anything these days, and I'll be 39 this year too. I feel that same way too sometimes. Especially being back in school I feel like everyone's mom lol. I KNOW!!!
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Post by pilar on Mar 27, 2009 8:48:12 GMT -5
BIG HUGS to you both.
Don't worry....he's out there, kids. And you're still very young! Just reaching your prime!
I often find when I'm NOT flirting that they come in DROVES. LOL!
(dam spelling again)
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Post by xanoquita on Mar 27, 2009 13:52:47 GMT -5
Maybe he is, maybe he's not. I can't live my life waiting for something that I don't even know if it's going to happen. I try to be happy as I am. I have a beautiful daughter, I have friends to talk to and go out. I do a lot of things on my own (like going to the movies, for example). I don't need a man to make me happy. I CAN'T need a man to make me happy. It's like I said before, I don't even believe I could handle a relationship now in my life. I just miss feeling attractive. I miss feeling like a woman. I miss feeling sexy. I miss that good feeling you have when you just know that guy wants you, even if you don't want him. And... to be honest... I do miss the sex Come on! It's been like almost 4 years since I was last kissed!!!!
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Post by sassenach on Mar 27, 2009 14:16:06 GMT -5
To all the lovely ladies, out there. There is a book i believe should be every girl's best book: "He's not that much into you" . It really saved my life....saved me from dating some jerks out there. Not being in a relationship lately, i also find harder and harder NOT to make compromises, and for goodnes's sake there aren't THAT many single, interesting, keepable men out there. Still i've dated quite a lot jack asses, so i say " I deserver better - better alone than alone AND regretted".
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Post by LFCgirl on Mar 27, 2009 15:01:33 GMT -5
I wish that book had been out when I was younger, would have saved me a lot of trouble lol. Oh and today this one 25 yr old at school told me I looked nice lol. And I don't miss sex so much as the kissing.
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Post by Leppardlady on Mar 27, 2009 18:26:05 GMT -5
Listening to you all, I suddenly don't feel alone anymore; I am also in my thirties (38) and I haven't dated anyone in a long time. The last guy I did date it was in the Army and we ended up losing touch with each other. He was the greatest guy and he spoiled me for men in the future; he wasn't just a great lover, he was also my best friend. I feel like I could tell him anything. He also accepted me the way I was, didn't criticize me in any way, and didn't care that I was slightly overweight when we first met. I ended up losing weight through the six months that I had known him. Whenever I think of him, it's always fondly and always with laughter because he always knew how to make me laugh. I still miss him. He raised the bar for me and I won't settle for less than what I had with him. Pilar, I think the same way that you do about friends and coworkers who tell me I need to have a man in my life; I say, not so badly that I am willing to settle for second best.
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Post by Joy on Apr 1, 2009 21:31:21 GMT -5
I thought this was interesting. According to this Scorpios don't play well with others. He'd play well with me I'm a Cap. www.romantic-tips.com/scorpio.shtmlSCORPIO & ARIES: - You make a hot combination in bed. Highly aggressive sex that could be described as implied violence. Lustful but not lasting due to your jealous nature. SCORPIO & TAURUS: - Polar opposites that actually do quite well together. The Bull is stable and loyal enough to satisfy your intense nature. You both value long-term unions and are willing to work at them together. SCORPIO & GEMINI: - This is not a likely match, the Illusive, fickle Gemini will drive you to distraction, which in turn could bring out your vengeful side. SCORPIO & CANCER: - This is one of your best connections. The Crab is a loyal mate who is usually willing to stand behind you. Cancers are attracted to your strong, demanding ways. SCORPIO & LEO: - This connection can lead to crimes of passion. Although you are strongly attracted to the Lion, Leo's flamboyant, flirtatious nature will cause anger that could erupt into murder-suicide. SCORPIO & VIRGO: - The Virgoan has difficulties with your sexual leanings. You will bore easily and move on to more passionate partners. SCORPIO & LIBRA: - This is not the best match. Libra is far too good looking and easy going for your jealous nature. You would likely end up spying on this social butterfly. SCORPIO & SCORPIO: - Sexually you are truly compatible, however out of the bedroom you are far too much alike -- creating problems and mind games. You will always think that the other is having an affair. SCORPIO & SAGITTARIUS: - This alliance is a waste of time for both parties. You are a homebody and the Archer is a travel nut. This is not a likely attraction. SCORPIO & CAPRICORN: - This is a wonderful partnership. You both have the same values and cherish your home environment. Mentally and physically you match up well, easily satisfying one anothers needs. SCORPIO & AQUARIUS: - Why bother. This will never work due to the Aquarian's need for freedom and your need to possess. Your values, ethics and approach to life are just too different. SCORPIO & PISCES: - This is not bad. Probably the most erotic sexual combination. The Fish is willing to be a part of your whims and desires, and that makes for a lasting union.
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Post by ava on Apr 2, 2009 2:08:42 GMT -5
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Post by xanoquita on Apr 2, 2009 2:36:15 GMT -5
SCORPIO & ARIES: - You make a hot combination in bed. Highly aggressive sex that could be described as implied violence. Lustful but not lasting due to your jealous nature. WOW!!! It's 8h30 a.m. and I'm already getting hot just to imagine!!!!
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Post by Dianne on Apr 2, 2009 4:32:38 GMT -5
SCORPIO & ARIES: - You make a hot combination in bed. Highly aggressive sex that could be described as implied violence. Lustful but not lasting due to your jealous nature. WOW!!! It's 8h30 a.m. and I'm already getting hot just to imagine!!!! I'm getting hot staring at your siggie and the two dimples above Gerry's ass!
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Post by xanoquita on Apr 2, 2009 4:53:28 GMT -5
I'm getting hot staring at your siggie and the two dimples above Gerry's ass!
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