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Post by swansong on Mar 24, 2009 13:25:22 GMT -5
Mary, I think this is probably true for some of Gerry's younger fans, but for me at 53 years old, I don't feel jealousy that Gerry's out dawging around..what I feel is disappointment that his reputation is being trashed on the gossip sites. Very early in my fandom, nasty comments and articles about him were rare, and I kinda liked not having to deal with that stuff. Now it's out there. I sometimes wish he's just settle down and get out of the clubbing scene so the trash talk would stop. One thing about Gerry though, I think he does exactly what he wants, regardless of what people think or say about him. I gotta admire him for that. Swannie Swannie, I think we ALL like the fantasy of Gerry NOT having sex! We wanna have our little dream that he will someday come to us and sweep us off our feet and fall in love with us and have a wonderful life til the day we die. I WISH that was true, but its not. Unfortunately so. It suck ass big time but, again, Gerry is a MAN who has access to beautiful woman who constantly chase him down etc. He can have any woman he wants and the shitty thing for us is that that woman is NOT us. I know the guy has sex, I just try not to think about it. That vid of him kissing that girl made me upset, I won't lie. So, yes, I agree with what you said. If his image of being a slut was publicized all the time then he would lose some fans. To quote myself! Its like he's cheating on us. Thats why it gets us mad when we see him or hear of him with a woman. Thats exactly what it is...Period.
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Post by Joy on Mar 24, 2009 13:40:10 GMT -5
I hate hearing this stuff because it is often a step to a more dangerous life style. That is when I worry about Gerry the man. We all know that he has had problems with alcohol a product of poor judgement. I certainly would hope that at his age he has the ability to use the big head and not always the little one.
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Post by Mary on Mar 24, 2009 13:56:07 GMT -5
I just read some more of the comments on TMZ under the kissing vid and I read something I didnt like. Not sure if I should post it or not. It makes me sad and angry at the same time. Sad for Gerry that someone would say this and mad at the person for saying it. fuck her. And no, its not from the girl he dated from the Jaguar ad that was posted earlier.
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Post by Dianne on Mar 24, 2009 16:06:24 GMT -5
I just read some more of the comments on TMZ under the kissing vid and I read something I didnt like. Not sure if I should post it or not. It makes me sad and angry at the same time. Sad for Gerry that someone would say this and mad at the person for saying it. fuck her. And no, its not from the girl he dated from the Jaguar ad that was posted earlier. That's why some of us get upset at the antics of those at IMDb. Some of the comment are just mean to the point of being down right slanderous. I just don't see the humor in being mean to someone. I left that behind in grade school.
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Post by sassenach on Mar 24, 2009 17:02:49 GMT -5
Hey....am i the only one NOT jealous about Gerard having a normal sexual life as a bachelor? The opposite should be uncanny, don't ye think so? Having sex with sluts doesn't really bothers me.... getting married to one of them is going to make me mad with jealousy! Not because i'm dreaming of me as Mrs Butler, at least not seriously, just because i want him to have as a normal, happy marital life as possible, away from the show-business impact. Colin Firth's happy marriage is a fine example to this .
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Post by pilar on Mar 24, 2009 19:56:26 GMT -5
LOL, Dianne!!!!!!!!!!!
Ya kill me...you really do.
For the record, I didn't post that blog to stir up gossip. I like Gerry as much as the next fan....and the people that know me are aware I would never do anything to harm him. I just won't be a hypocrite. This is a site I feel comfortable talking about whatever the hell I want. PERIOD.
On another note.....I thinks the comments after the blog are a RIOT! I have never seen so many anonymous posters. And, Aysum, babe....yeah....those hugs were for you because I thought the blog may have been a little jarring. *kiss*
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Post by Dianne on Mar 24, 2009 20:12:01 GMT -5
LOL, Dianne!!!!!!!!!!! Ya kill me...you really do. For the record, I didn't post that blog to stir up gossip. I like Gerry as much as the next fan....and the people that know me are aware I would never do anything to harm him. I just won't be a hypocrite. This is a site I feel comfortable talking about whatever the hell I want. PERIOD. On another note.....I thinks the comments after the blog are a RIOT! I have never seen so many anonymous posters. And, Aysum, babe....yeah....those hugs were for you because I thought the blog may have been a little jarring. *kiss* This was actually a really fun discussion. It's good for us to get a little analytical once in a while. It keeps us real.
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Post by swansong on Mar 24, 2009 20:13:45 GMT -5
I was referring to the gossip sites, not any fansite that might comment on articles and such. Sites like JJ are rampant with NASTY comments. That's the stuff that upsets me.
Swannie
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Post by pilar on Mar 25, 2009 0:28:55 GMT -5
Colin Firth's happy marriage is a fine example to this . I just googled Colin Firth. WOW! Where the heck have I been? What a doll! Sassenach, your statement reminded me of hearing about Clive Owen taking a year off to spend time with his baby girl. My heart just MELTED. That's a MAN!
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Post by sassenach on Mar 25, 2009 3:13:21 GMT -5
Well, glad to inform you Pilar. Dear Colin Firth is in his late 40 now, and has been an international hearthrob as Mr Darcy in "Pride and Prejudice" AND "Bridget Jones Diaries". He's nowhwere close to the stereotype of a Hollywood star. Besides, he lives in London and Rome, mostly. Met his Italian wife at age 35 and got married 2 years after. They've been together for 12 years now, have two kids, and what made my heart melt is the mere fact that this Anglophone learned Italian for her sake.Now he can not only speak fluently Italian, yet give press interviews in Dante's language or recite poetry or litterature. To complete the package, the man is a very active humanitarian with OXFAM and other organisations with ecological interests. Seems supernatural yet it's only Colin Firth - a very versatile actor, a family man, a man with social concience!(I owed him that much, cause i had overflow his fansite last summer with photos of Gerard and ramblings about the Scott, too!)
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Post by Dianne on Mar 25, 2009 4:06:52 GMT -5
Well, glad to inform you Pilar. Dear Colin Firth is in his late 40 now, and has been an international hearthrob as Mr Darcy in "Pride and Prejudice" AND "Bridget Jones Diaries". He's nowhwere close to the stereotype of a Hollywood star. Besides, he lives in London and Rome, mostly. Met his Italian wife at age 35 and got married 2 years after. They've been together for 12 years now, have two kids, and what made my heart melt is the mere fact that this Anglophone learned Italian for her sake.Now he can not only speak fluently Italian, yet give press interviews in Dante's language or recite poetry or litterature. To complete the package, the man is a very active humanitarian with OXFAM and other organisations with ecological interests. Seems supernatural yet it's only Colin Firth - a very versatile actor, a family man, a man with social concience!(I owed him that much, cause i had overflow his fansite last summer with photos of Gerard and ramblings about the Scott, too!) Ha! Sass, I love his smile.
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Post by aysun on Mar 25, 2009 5:55:56 GMT -5
And, Aysum, babe....yeah....those hugs were for you because I thought the blog may have been a little jarring. *kiss* Thank you honey You know, I´m currently in a very difficult phase in my life with divorce and marital quarrels and so on involving four kids. Gerry is for me my time-off of my miserable current-life and I will always love him for helping me to go through this - even he never will know this. I love him and to hear some of this stuff cause me pain in the stomach...this girl-kissing-scene too, I know about it but never watched it and will never watch it. Of course it´s illusory to think he has no sex-life but I´m doing well in ignoring it.
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Post by sassenach on Mar 25, 2009 8:01:26 GMT -5
Aysun, i really hope everything will solve out soon and as smoothly as it gets. Being a Mediterranean girl myself, i know our men can be such dominating, egoistic jerks most of the time. And when - Heaven forbids- there are divorcing issues, they are somehow determinated to make life a living hell, well unless THEY have ask for it. Take care, I know that, being a fan and talking about a gorgeous man, can lead you with some comfort and grace through difficult situations. Just take care and enjoy small/grand pleasures of life as every day brings to you!
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Post by aysun on Mar 25, 2009 8:37:03 GMT -5
Aysun, i really hope everything will solve out soon and as smoothly as it gets. Being a Mediterranean girl myself, i know our men can be such dominating, egoistic jerks most of the time. And when - Heaven forbids- there are divorcing issues, they are somehow determinated to make life a living hell, well unless THEY have ask for it. Take care, I know that, being a fan and talking about a gorgeous man, can lead you with some comfort and grace through difficult situations. Just take care and enjoy small/grand pleasures of life as every day brings to you! Absolutely right honey. Mediterranean men are all like this and one thing I know for sure...my next man will not be one of them! Preferalble a scot? It´s really the best thing I can do and I´m really glad that I discovered Gerry for me. He caused that I met so much great persons and find some real good friends. One day I want to thank him for that with a biiiiiiiiiiig kiss and a hug or two.
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Post by pilar on Mar 25, 2009 8:58:31 GMT -5
Yes, darling....I can relate. I discovered G during a very difficult period in my life.....and he helped tremendously. It's why I'll always be in his corner.
And, sass....stop it! I don't need another obsession! LOL! J/K....he sounds like a wonderful man.
(crap...I can't spell this morning)
xo
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