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Post by KissmeGerry on May 25, 2011 15:01:55 GMT -5
Hmmmm, in your previous post, you described me to a tee...... I know he'd fall hard for me!
(in my dreams....sigh)
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Post by leosgurl on May 25, 2011 15:09:18 GMT -5
Ok, what does my signature pictures have to do with this discussion, she should understand the business but not just entertainment, she needs to know business, investing, color and put flavor in his work and life. Not just keep him interested but help him use his brain, heart and everything he has to offer in a better way. He needs stimulation of mind, to share a whole new vision of things Ruah
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Post by dawne27 on May 25, 2011 23:51:40 GMT -5
It'll be someone much like his mom. Someone who isn't afraid of him and won't back off. Someone with a deep understanding of his inner conflicts and isn't concerned by them. Someone with a great sense of humor, grace and deep wisdom of what men want. Not sexually, but more about motivation, passion and who's very emotional. Someone who inspires him, lets him be him with complete acceptance and tolerance of his shifting moods. She needs to be his wall of light. His flame that warms him when it's cold and dark where he is. His water fountain of pure clean water. Love him like cash but never let him get away with self-destructive behaviors (like in the first half of 2010). Someone who can present themselves well in public but doesn't need to be a stunner but pretty, fit with a winning smile, get along with his many diverse friends, non-judgmental, open and fair minded, conservative, traditional but flexible, faithful, God loving, spiritual, forgiving, wise. Must be able to make him proud and fit into his erratic lifestyle, like his friends and allow him to keep them. Love pets, children (he's a big kid), love learning and have interests outside of him. She needs to be confident, aware, brave, courageous, fearless, proud, self-possessed, bright and intelligent, funny, caring, attractive, sexy, playful, loyal, trusting, inventive, uninhibited, together but mostly... happy. peace....you write very well. i enjoy reading what you have to say. very thought provoking. challenging. you, i can tell, are some form of an artist yourself and for this reason relate to and are 'inlove' with this man....honestly though, how is it that you write with such authority as actually 'knowing' gerard butler?? between us...personally and honestly (which you seek) i am GLAD gerard butler is keeping himself private. that says a LOT about him doesn't it. especially with your comment elluding to him being a 'attention junkie'... (can't help it, i'm a giggler in real life....too)....isn't it quite apparent though peace or shouldn'tbe, or slimchance....the webmistress here like many other members DO infact like a challenge and DO infact go outside the box and DO infact speak 'truth'...truth doesn't always have to be brutual or unkind. here's a question for you...its so old and no, not about the bear shitting in woods or falling trees....simple....is the glass half full or half empty? its really that simple. its a glass with liquid in it...so, that is the difference..... another question...you almost seemed to denigrate the notion of a woman here who gives up a 'real' life in pursuit of gerard loving her by following him on a little spot in cyberland? why denigrate it if you yourself have admitted 'following' gerard on several boards since POTO?? how can that be? listen, each one of us have fallen into the trap of devoting many hours to this sweet (at times lusty) distraction.....i wonder if gerard really has gleaned much from his fan following? how can it not be that way...its so personal yet safely at a distance....one soul reaching out to another....him, through his work, his interviews....us through points like posting opinions, hopes, dreams...whatever....i say there is a symbiosis here...and a very fine line to tread....OOoops, its getting late....for another conversation, for another day.......................take care
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Post by LongTimeLurker LTL on May 26, 2011 12:04:25 GMT -5
It'll be someone much like his mom. Someone who isn't afraid of him and won't back off. Someone with a deep understanding of his inner conflicts and isn't concerned by them. Someone with a great sense of humor, grace and deep wisdom of what men want. Not sexually, but more about motivation, passion and who's very emotional. Someone who inspires him, lets him be him with complete acceptance and tolerance of his shifting moods. She needs to be his wall of light. His flame that warms him when it's cold and dark where he is. His water fountain of pure clean water. Love him like cash but never let him get away with self-destructive behaviors (like in the first half of 2010). Someone who can present themselves well in public but doesn't need to be a stunner but pretty, fit with a winning smile, get along with his many diverse friends, non-judgmental, open and fair minded, conservative, traditional but flexible, faithful, God loving, spiritual, forgiving, wise. Must be able to make him proud and fit into his erratic lifestyle, like his friends and allow him to keep them. Love pets, children (he's a big kid), love learning and have interests outside of him. She needs to be confident, aware, brave, courageous, fearless, proud, self-possessed, bright and intelligent, funny, caring, attractive, sexy, playful, loyal, trusting, inventive, uninhibited, together but mostly... happy. I'm not homosexual, but going by your description, if I find this woman AND she's available, hell, I WANNA MARRY HER.
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Post by Dianne on May 26, 2011 16:31:20 GMT -5
It'll be someone much like his mom. Someone who isn't afraid of him and won't back off. Someone with a deep understanding of his inner conflicts and isn't concerned by them. Someone with a great sense of humor, grace and deep wisdom of what men want. Not sexually, but more about motivation, passion and who's very emotional. Someone who inspires him, lets him be him with complete acceptance and tolerance of his shifting moods. She needs to be his wall of light. His flame that warms him when it's cold and dark where he is. His water fountain of pure clean water. Love him like cash but never let him get away with self-destructive behaviors (like in the first half of 2010). Someone who can present themselves well in public but doesn't need to be a stunner but pretty, fit with a winning smile, get along with his many diverse friends, non-judgmental, open and fair minded, conservative, traditional but flexible, faithful, God loving, spiritual, forgiving, wise. Must be able to make him proud and fit into his erratic lifestyle, like his friends and allow him to keep them. Love pets, children (he's a big kid), love learning and have interests outside of him. She needs to be confident, aware, brave, courageous, fearless, proud, self-possessed, bright and intelligent, funny, caring, attractive, sexy, playful, loyal, trusting, inventive, uninhibited, together but mostly... happy. I'm not homosexual, but going by your description, if I find this woman AND she's available, hell, I WANNA MARRY HER. Ha!!!!!
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Post by canadia on Oct 18, 2011 11:29:20 GMT -5
www.celebuzz.com/2011-10-18/ashley-greene-talks-drinking-dating-and-nude-photo-scandal-with-allure-magazine/Ashley Greene in an attempt to clarify or put down the rumours she is dating Gerard said this in Allure Magazine On dating Gerard Butler: “He’s extremely attractive, but I think he’s a little too old for me… Don’t print that I called Gerard Butler old, I feel bad.” Unfortunately for poor Ashley she realized too late that the gossip columnists would do exactly as she feared, make it sound like she was insulting Gerard when in fact she was just being honest Many 25 year olds are not interested in dating someone over 40. I wasn't at that age. Not in the least.
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Post by canadia on Oct 18, 2011 11:39:40 GMT -5
Ha another site quotes Ashley as saying "“She was like, ‘Get yo’ ass home!’” Greene says of her mother’s reaction to the news that she was dating 41-year-old Gerard Butler. “He’s extremely attractive, but I think he’s a little too old for me.” entertainment.blogs.foxnews.com/2011/10/18/twilight-star-ashley-greens-family-okay-with-her-nude-pics-on-internet/Now that would also have been my mother's reaction. And you know moms, Actors musicians rockstars are about as bad as drug dealers or criminals as far as boyfriends go. Well except some of the shallower mothers who see $$$$$, you know the Real Housewives set oh honey you are marrying Hugh Hefner that's wonderful
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Post by mymymy on Oct 18, 2011 14:31:48 GMT -5
Hmmm I tend to disagree. If my daughter came home and said she was dating Gerard Butler, I would be quite happy. He is a nice sensitive man. I don't think age would matter to me. And it wouldn't be about his money. Money can't buy happiness or health which are most important.
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Post by gersarchitect on Oct 18, 2011 15:09:31 GMT -5
Generally I would not date somebody 16 years older than me but if that somebody is as gorgeous, smart, nice and funny as Gerry, I would date him in a heartbeat. Stupid girl
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daphne
Gerard Butler watcher
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Post by daphne on Oct 18, 2011 15:23:15 GMT -5
Ya'all know that I am 14, and I DESPERATELY WANT HIM, but listen, NOT ANYONE WHO IS 41, BUT ONLY GERRY. So she is a bit of silly in her side and a lot of 'positive' for us. Surely, if I were her I wouldn't answer that way.LoL
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Post by Maddie on Oct 19, 2011 6:52:55 GMT -5
I wouldnt want to date every 41 year old guy.... but THE one we know is absolutely gorgeous and if he was 52 i'd want him
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angel25
Junior Gerard Butler Fan
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Post by angel25 on Oct 19, 2011 16:17:33 GMT -5
Well, I can see the dilemma (being 20 myself I don't think my loved ones would accept that well the fact that I would be dating a man twice my age), but then again it's Gerard we are talking about here. I'm sure he would win them over with his natural charm
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Post by Dianne on Oct 19, 2011 16:40:07 GMT -5
Well, I can see the dilemma (being 20 myself I don't think my loved ones would accept that well the fact that I would be dating a man twice my age), but then again it's Gerard we are talking about here. I'm sure he would win them over with his natural charm I would bet that they would have misgivings like; take it slow with him, he is older than you and more experienced....But Gerry being handsome, charming, rich, and famous.... Hummm... If you were my daughter I'd give you the talk to be careful and not be just another gal left at the port when The Gerard Butler ship sails away, but just to make sure I would make you wear the biggest pair of white granny panties I could find. Granny Panties, the 21st century chastity belt.
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angel25
Junior Gerard Butler Fan
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Post by angel25 on Oct 19, 2011 17:26:45 GMT -5
I was joking, of course. The main point is realistically it wouldn't work (even if I had the body of a Victoria's Secret girl - HA!) and my parents would give me THE lecture of my life. The chastity belt part made me laugh! My father wouldn't mind buying me one for sure!
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Post by Dianne on Oct 19, 2011 20:59:37 GMT -5
You know with the granny panties, He wouldn't know whether to take them off or use them as a sail for his surf board.
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